i just realised how very much of our conversation does not consist of words. i was talking to tommy and brushing my teeth at the same time. my mouth full of tooth paste and tooth brush making sounds i didn't even understand myself. tommy interpreted my "speech" and translated it to swedish, to see if he had understood correctly. which he had. amazing. afterwards in the bathroom i saw that his tooth brush was on its way to fall from the shelf, i just looked at it and tommy understood and stopped it from falling. i realised we often do that. exchange looks and understand what the other one wants. maybe i'm just tired, but isn't it very amazing that we are so clever?